Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Friday, March 09, 2012

Nanay Neda's 70th Birthday


It's Nanay Neda's 70th Birthday!

The feeling was so high as I see my family, my grandparents, cousins, nephews and other relatives gather together on this very special occasion. It's inspiring and overwhelming! 

Nanay Neda is diabetic and she almost has an impaired hearing caused by the medicines she's taking. It's also a little bit hard for my lola to take a walk or higher steps maybe because of diabetes and old age.

Our family is no exemption to those family-wars which is unavoidable and is usual to all families, but I guess, every problem and challenge tie us even more stronger and closer to one another. If there's time for war, more often are the times to make LOVE.

Last February 26, Sunday, we celebrated my lola's 70th Birthday. Yey!
My uncle-godfather, Ninong Jhon-Jhon who's in Singapore sponsored her birthday. It was only a simple family gathering that was held on my Ninong's place as well at Camella, Bulacan. It was a lovely and unforgettable day for me and for sure for lola too.

It's sad because the major sponsor and the brain of the celebration could not be with us. But thanks to skype and iphone, my Ninong had a little taste of what was happening on lola's birthday.

Aunt Lyn and Mommy Susan (my dad's sisters), took charge of the foods. Oh, how I wish I could share with you guys how awesome they cook! They could make a very good catering service!
Wrapped Rice, Fresh Bananas and Salad for dessert, Lumpia, Lengua, Fish Fillet,
Kaldereta, Chicken Pastelle, White Pasta were only some of the foods
prepared for Lola's Birthday

My Ninong's girlfriend, Tita Steph, and lolo managed the reservations and arrangements of the tables and chairs and tent that was placed outside the house. My dad (Papa Otis) took charge of the red balloons.

While the kids, including me, made a little effort on putting up a greeting banner and a picture for our lola. How sweet! Thanks to laptop, photoshop and printer that made it possible up to the last minute!
We almost forgot to put a greeting banner or
streamer for the birthdaycelebrator. But thanks
 to technologywe were still able to come-up with
something creative. haha!

My big brother Alvin showed his love by asking our little brother Lui to buy flowers at Dangwa and give it to our Lola a day before her birthday. Then, he, together with his girlfriend came up early with a Parvati Sugar-Free Cake they bought at Trinoma, only for our diabetic Lola. (I had a spoon of the cake and it tastes actually great, just a bit bitter because it's sugarless).

Very timely as it is, my little brother Lui won Res| Toe| Run's facebook Valentine's contest where they will choose only one entry. Participant must send a picture of who they want to celebrate Valentine's Day with and why.  It served as his advance birthday gift to Nanay Neda, they had dinner at Chateau 1971 at Glorietta, Makati and a pair of fitflops sponsored by Res| Toe| Run.

Thanks Res|Toe|Run and Sir Dale for the accommodation!
My brother and lola had an advanced birthday celebration!
Don't you love it when you see members of your family cooperate to one another for a certain goal? It was like I saw production crews gearing up towards an upcoming Celebrity Birthday Bash! haha.

She has no choice but to look at the camera. haha!
Nanay Neda is wearing a brown and white colored stripe see-through

 blouse on her birthday!  How liberated. LOL! Ninong asked her to c
hange her outfit when they were talking via Skype. 
It took her 3  wardrobes before coming up with this one.

Later in the afternoon, everything was all set. And the first guests were the family of my Lola's elder sister, Ate Pansang with Kuya Rolly, her husband ( (we're used to call them that way) with their son Kuya Yuri and some of their grandchildren. It was nice to see the two original sisters reunited!

You can see Nanay Neda's (let), and Ate Pansang's (right)
genuine smiles as they get reunited!

More visitors and guests started coming as it gets late in the afternoon. Cousin Sheila and her family made it all the way down from Pandi Bulacan, uncles, and some invited friends of Aunt Lyn. Tita Lilia and her husband came dinner time too with a big box of Dolor's Kakanin. Cousin Gerald and his girlfriend Ate Orpha went straight from their work with a bucket of Chocolate-Chips flavored Ice Cream bought at S&R! 


I could feel my Nanay Neda's joy as she's being greeted by her guests. She even became teary-eyed. Yes, she's a crying lola! I can feel that she's feeling it too, the overflowing LOVE! :)

Few hours before sunset, me and my cousins decided to play cards for an ice breaker! haha  We played the most exciting card game for us, IN-BETWEEN! While Uncles had a little drink. 

We all ended up so full and happy!

Time for photo opts! Oops? I was caught eating salad while they're
all busy posing for the  camera! lol
Photo with the kids ! This is one of my favorite!
So natural and very youthful! :)

Of course the party will not end with a group picture! What a happy family! :) More photos were
 uploaded on my Tita Steph's Facebook Account. :)

Reunions need not be elegant nor expensive. Sometimes, a reason and little efforts can make it a HUGE and extra-ordinary one.

Nothing can really beat reunions and close family ties. Only here in Philippines. I love you Manahan Family! You're simply the best! ♥


Thursday, October 13, 2011

ONE on ONE

Ayoko na talaga. Sabi ko na, dapat hindi muna ko nag-boyfriend. Sana hindi ko muna inuna yung feelings ko noon o nagpadala sa mga tukso ng kaklase at barkada. Dapat nag-aral muna ko. Although hindi ko naman napabayaan yung pag-aaral ko, hindi ko lang gusto yung nararamdaman ko ngayon.

PRESSURE, GALIT, INIS, TAKOT at REGRET.
Haaaay. Ang sakit sa ulo atsa pakiramdam.

PRESSURE at TAKOT. PRESSURE at TAKOT dahil ga-graduate na ako. Sounds exciting right? But I know it doesn't end there. Syempre, kailangan kong makahanap ng trabaho, ng magandang trabaho. Ngayon tinatanong ko ang sarili ko,sapat na kaya ang mga natutunan ko sa kolehiyo for four years para makahanap ng trabahong papasa sa expectations nila sakin? This is the start, of starting from scratch. I know I don't have to please anybody or live for them. But this has been part of living, of my life, to accomplish expectations on me by the people who are important to me...with flying colors.

Haaaay. GALIT, INIS, at SELOS. GALIT at INIS dahil hindi ko alam kung bakit ang lahat ng bagay, tao, pangyayari sa paligid ko ay nagbabago. Sana, yung dati na lang. Sana, may magagawa ako. Sana hindi ko nararamdaman ngayon 'to. GALIT, INIS, at SELOS. Haaay. Kung lalaki ka at ang sabi mo mahal mo ang girlfriend mo, anong gagawin mo kung alam mong selosa sya at may umaaligid sa'yo? Magtatanga-tangahan ka ba? Magpe-pretend na walang alam? NAKAKINIS! NAKAKAIYAK! Sabi ko na. Dapat hindi muna ko nag-boyfriend e. E di sana okay at masaya ako ngayon kahit friends lang ang meron ako.

REGRET. Regret dahil sa tingin ko nagpaka-bobo ako noon, nagpadalosdalos. Ngayon parang gusto kong bumalik sa dati. Tapos iibahin ko yung mga naging desisyon ko noon. Ano kaya ang mangyayari? Magkakaganito kaya ako ngayon? NAIINIS at UMIIYAK?

Kaso wala na, huli na. Kaya nga favorite ko ang kasabihang nasa huli ang pagsisisi.
Totoo naman, magsisisi ka ba kung nasa umpisa ka pa lang? Kung hindi mo pa alam ang kahihinatnan? Kaso ang tanong e, pano mo malalaman kung huli na? Kapag NAIINIS ka na at UMIIYAK? Hay ewan. REGRET, kasi hindi ko nalaman yung magiging storya namin, pano kaya kung sya yung pinili ko? Magtatagal kaya? Magisisisi kaya ako at sasabihing 'sana sya na lang pala'? MAIINIS at IIYAK din kaya ako? Matagal na din kami ngayon, pero sya, gusto ko talaga malaman ang kahihinatnan kung 'sya' yung kami ngayon.

Haaaay, ewan ko nga ba talaga! Ngayon pakiramdam ko nakakulong ako sa selsang ako mismo ang gumawa. Pakiramdam ko isa kong pulis na inaresto at pinosas ang kanyang sarili. Ngayon hindi ako makalabas at makawala. Nasaan na ba ang susi? Hindi ko din alam. Siguro hanggang may PRESSURE, GALIT, INIS, SELOS, TAKOT, at REGRET ako ay hindi ko makikita.

Alam ko nasa isip ko lang lahat 'to. Pero bakit parang nilalamon ako ng sarili kog pag-iisip? Haaay, ewan nga ba. Ewan ko lang talaga. Sige, magsama-sama kayo para INISIN at PAIYAKIN ako. Mahirap pala kapag madami kang iniisip, ikaw din ang MAIINIS at MAIIYAK. In short, pinapahirapan ko lang ang sarili ko. Ngayon, tina-type ko 'to, kasi wala akong makausap. O pwedeng ayoko sila kausapin. kasi for sure MAIINIS at IIYAK lang din ako. Ganun pala talaga, haaaaaay, ewan. Minsan pala mas masarap pa talaga ang nag-iisa sa buhay. At least wala kang iniisip na ibang damdaming masasaktan. Kung meron man, sarili mo lang at kasalanan mo yun, hindi ng ibang tao. Minsan pala e kailangan mo ding makipag-ONE-on-ONE sa sarili mo. Lalo na kapag may nararamdaman kang GALIT, INIS at PAGOD.

PSs...
*Until now I haven't found the key. Something tells me I just have to dig dipper. I'll tell you as soon as I find it. No worries, I'll carry through. 

*from my cellphone's NOTES keyed somewhere between the month of March and April 2011. This is the second time I typed this for i wasn't able to save the first one. But it wasn't hard for me to re-type. Perhaps, something still lingers...


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